A Strong Support System
Site: | Akademie EU |
Course: | Empathy for Children |
Book: | A Strong Support System |
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Date: | Sunday, 9 February 2025, 2:35 PM |
1. Support System
2. Teams
Suppose teachers must feel motivated and manage their resources in the best possible way, promote balance and energy, they need to have good colleagues around. Being part of a healthy, well-functioning learning environment reduces stress. It provides greater joy and makes everyday life more comfortable with a sense of togetherness and community.
When having professional sparring partners close by to listen, support, and give feedback, the teachers appear as a cohesive unit rather than just a single - more vulnerable – one. It makes them better equipped and no longer exposed to criticism from parents, students, or management. When the purpose is clear and leads to better pedagogical work, learning and well-being teamwork works the best.
Teams are often composed of each grade level or based on subjects and didactics in Denmark. In those teams, teachers can structure interdisciplinary courses, put together annual plans and take over each other’s teaching by, e.g., illness, doubt, conficts, if necessary, where they use each other’s resources to the greatest joy and beneft of the students.
3. School and Home
In a good school-home collaboration, the school and the parents have clearly defned roles, respect each other, share knowledge, and work together with a common interest in their professional, emotional, and social development. To build a healthy collaboration, teachers must consider parents as partners, who they need to work well with to best support and stimulate the students well-being. This means that the teachers show confdence that all parents can contribute and be a positive resource, they too can communicate with and keep misunderstandings or quarrels away. A strong school-home collaboration gives the students’ better-learning conditions and deprives teachers of burdens that shut down empathy. There is a strong tradition of cooperation between school and home in Danish schools. The School Act states that parents play a central role in students’ schooling, learning, and development. The collaboration may concern the individual student, or it may focus on entire classes. Therefore, the collaboration is characterized by several diferent activities and areas of cooperation, such as dialogue with the school, parent meetings, conversations between school and home, joint exercises, and ongoing dialogue with teachers.
There are some areas a teacher must consider when a well-functioning partnership between school and home is to function optimally
4. Trust
Trust is an essential element in a well-functioning collaboration. If parents do not trust the teacher, parents hold back critical views because they worry that it may harm the student. A trusting relationship creates profts to deal with problems and conficts when they arise. Therefore, it is important that the teacher always contact the parents about everyday topics and continuously communicates about the student’s strengths and
potentials.
The ongoing contact can take place, for example, when the teacher writes weekly updates to the parents at the schools intra communications tool in an informal and personal way. In this way, they show a commitment that helps to give the parents security and trust. In the younger classes, the teacher can be in class in the morning when the parents drop of children (See exercise E2.1), and take the time to small-talk with the parents. In the older classes, a short phone call can allow an informal talk about the student. The work of creating a trusting and cooperative relationship is strengthened by the teacher continuously showing care for the student and patiently focusing on the student’s learning and empathic well-being
5. Learn from Parents
To support a good collaboration between school and home, teachers and management must understand the parents’ values, perspectives, and expectations for the collaboration and, at the same time, set a clear direction for the collaboration. The school’s responsibility is to frame the collaboration, develop a dialogue with the parents, and create shared understandings.
Parental knowledge can give teachers a more coherent picture of the student and better understand strengths and weaknesses.
In concrete terms, this means that the teacher in the meeting with the parents is listening and asking about their child’s parents’ experience. When the student is challenged, the teacher must avoid interpreting the parents’ perspective either as wrong or as an expression of an inherent problem with the student or family, but instead show curiosity and empathy. The parents’ perspective can be an essential source for understanding the student and the next understanding of the student’s family culture and background. Practicing empathy here is of great signifcance.
Parents’ position and commitment to the schoolhome collaboration are created relationally through the school’s opportunities for participation. Therefore, it is essential that the collaboration makes it possible for all parents to be heard and does not place higher demands and expectations on the parents than they have the opportunity to live up to. In some cases, the school-home collaboration goal may be that the student attends school every day or has a packed lunch with them. Especially about vulnerable families, there may be a need for informal and fexible forms of cooperation. In concrete terms, this may mean that the school must supplement jointly written messages with personal or telephone contact so that the relevant information reaches all parents - regardless of reading skills or language background. To accommodate the parents who have negative school experiences, the teacher can also choose to move meetings and activities away from the school’s usual framework, e.g., to the sports hall or entirely outside the school. Another option may be to go on home visits and gain a greater insight into the student’s everyday life.
6. Commitment
If teachers are to succeed in developing forms of cooperation that are fexible about the parents’ prerequisites, it requires strategy and management. Management is of great importance for teachers’ attitudes towards parents and for maintaining an empathic approach. It focuses on opportunities and resources rather than barriers and shortcomings.
Three key elements should be anchored (and often handed out as a folder to parents, when their child begins in school, because it is the responsibility of management to formulate):
- First, the strategy must clarify the division of roles and responsibilities for both teachers and parents.
- That an inclusive school is a shared responsibility.
- That the learning conditions work best when everyone contributes to the community, as it infuences their living conditions and development opportunities.
- That everyone has a shared responsibility to be able to include, accept, and respect the students with their living conditions and stories.
- That there is open communication, and challenges are solved together.
- That parents and school equally speak positively about the other.
- Secondly, the strategy must formulate a value-based basis for the collaboration. The parents are mentioned as partners who can make a positive contribution. The school management must convey a belief in the parents’ prerequisites and willingness to cooperate.
7. Parental Responsibility
- Helps their child meet the school’s expectations.
- Shows interest and loyalty in collaboration with the school.
- Is informed about the school’s activities.
- Actively participates in promoting a good environment so that everyone thrives.
- Understands and contributes to their child being part of a community.
- Makes demands on their child by its ability.
- Teaches their child to strengthen friendships and build up good manners.
8. Management Responsibility
The strategy must clarify the resource framework for cooperation. In short, it is the management’s task to create clarity about resources and time for collaboration.
- Responsibility - consider each other as whole people, take co-responsibility, and are credible in word and deed.
- Attitudes - make demands, and have expectations of each other, maintain healthy traditions, and use humor.
- Care - creates security for all, respects each other, and uses disagreement constructively.
- Community - has a good working environment and commitment to daily work.
- Ambitions - prioritize social, creative, and highly professional learning environment and use each other’s competencies.